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Sam Vinh's avatar

Coincidentally before I read this blog post, I wrote in my personal journal today about living in potential despair due to expecting the worst outcomes all the time. It sounds so irrational writing the thought out, but it makes perfect sense in my mind all the little yet often times I do think of x scenario.

Of course this one bad thing will happen, and it will happen in the worst possible way it could. Everything is ruined. It might be the media I consume or the way people talk about hardships as if they’re the only things that exist in our dystopia.

This isn’t to say reality is perfect and wonderful; it’s just less than our worst fears, most of the time. We’re probably hurt more by our worst fears of reality than we are by reality itself. If anything, hopeful delusion makes a more palatable life than hopeless sobriety.

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Kasra's avatar

I remember one time I booked an airbnb in the mission and texted the address to my friend who lived in SF, and he was like "cancel it, don't go there, that's a sketchy area". the airbnb reviews seemed ok so I stuck with it and it was totally fine for a weeklong visit.

in fairness I don't live there (plus the other caveats you made in your post) but I do think people overstate the dangers sometimes

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