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Millan's avatar

Just found this blog, very cool!

I have a very different story from meeting you this summer at Imbue. You consistently came across as interesting, likeable, and authentic - and I got this impression from meeting you in person, not from reading your blog. This article is perplexing to me because I suspect that all of my friends would immediately like and understand you.

Also you don't need to be Bill Clinton 2.0. At least from my experience, if you're not outgoing, some very interesting people will approach you because they know you won't reach out to them first. You also don't need to "like people" in the sense you describe. You just need to like a small number of specific people who like you back.

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sophie's avatar

this resonated! one thing that has helped me consistently be interested in people is Henrik's strategy of always telling himself that there's "something I don't understand here" — https://open.substack.com/pub/escapingflatland/p/perceptive

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